Hello there!

                       My name is J. A. Sholar, I’m 27 and live in New Jersey. It’s always been hard for me, as I imagine it is with most everyone to know how to describe myself. People are complex and the only real way to get to know them, is by conversing with them. So the best I can do is to give you a basic layout of who I am.

                     Former professional chef and baker, currently I work for myself with a small online business I’m trying to grow and also sometimes work as a writer. I don’t know many people which is simply because I don’t go out all night to some bar or club or a party at someone’s house. I’m just not interested in that. Not to mention that enviornment is not condusive to getting to know someone very well. I like to think of myself as interesting and there are many many different sides of me.

                      Ideally I’m looking for snailmail penpal to write to regularly and often as I think you choose every word carefully when you are writing it by hand, and that makes what ever you do write more meaningful I think. I also like texting, not really big into email but it’s not a deal breaker. And I’m really only looking for female penpals (I just get along better with them) and please no younger than like 24. Other than that, I’m pretty much open to anyone who is interested to write.

Contact me either here or through my email address which is WhereisJeff@yahoo.com

P.S. I don’t mind writing first.

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